Hello again, If you are not already aware, Bfla has been keeping a journal regarding his 30 day chastity challenge. Today, you can read about one of his milestones regarding July 6. To read more you can find his blog over on Enchantrix Empire. Here is what he wrote concerning day 21 in chastity.
Saturday, July 6 – Day 21
It seems like every day brings another milestone and another reason to celebrate. Today it was three weeks. It is honestly more than I thought I could do before we started, but once we started I became highly motivated not to stop short. So, even though we are not done, it is still something to be proud of getting this far, and I got to talk to Andi today to commemorate the occasion. Three weeks. And it only seems like three months! 🙂
Today was a milestone for other reasons as well. We had two very big firsts with our play. First, I put on the chastity device at home and left the key hidden there while going into the office all locked up. It was the first time I wore the chastity device and didn’t have access to the key. Although I would never take the chastity device off without Andi’s approval, wearing it and having the key is not the same as doing this in “real life” and having the woman have the key. I haven’t had that experience, but wanted to feel the loss of control that men locked up in chastity devices often have.
So I hid the key at home and wore the device. On the one hand, it was very exciting, knowing I was giving myself to Andi in a new and unprecedented way by being locked up and unable to get out. But, I admit, it added a certain level of anxiety not being able to get out of it. No matter how uncomfortable or excited I got, I was going to have to stay locked up until later in the day. That was interesting, exciting, and nerve-wracking all at the same time. I frequently felt myself swelling up inside the cage as a result (the cage prevents me from getting a full erection). I can’t imagine how frustrating it must be to be locked up for long periods of time.
The hot call I had with Andi only added to my frustration. 🙂 It involved giving Andi a sensuous and lengthy body massage while I was all locked up – and no, I won’t mention EVERY body part I took care of. 🙂
Then we moved to the second big first – Andi milked my excited dick. This was a new and exciting experience. I had never experienced anal play before Andi, but her writing, her sexy voice, and her careful, sensuous, and encouraging guidance have really turned me on to it. Although it often is an intense and emotional experience for me, it also has been incredibly exhilarating.
Today we used a prostate massager to excite and milk me in the chastity device. Whew what a hot experience. Let’s just say my dick swelled and oozed cum a whole lot inside that cage as Andi’s sexy voice described what she would do with that massager if she were here. Finally, Andi had me take Q-tips and stick them inside my metal bars and rub them up and down to stimulate my frustrated dick even more.
It was an emotional, yet very exciting call. Unfortunately, we had to go far too soon, and it was tough hanging up knowing I wouldn’t talk to Andi again until Monday night. I did go home soon afterwards and unlock myself as we had agreed.
Maybe it was knowing I wouldn’t talk to Andi for two days, maybe it was the excitement and intensity of the new experiences, but I was physically very worked up a lot of the rest of the day, and it was hard not being able to share this with Andi. It took me a long while to go to sleep Saturday night because I was physically worked up. I got through it by doing exactly what Andi suggested if I had a rough moment when we couldn’t talk — thinking about all the encouragement she has been giving me. 🙂
Thank you so much Bfla, you are doing great. 30 days is just around the corner. I really enjoyed using the prostate massager on you and all the other fun things we are doing…
~Princess Andi~
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you are most welcome Bfla, I am glad to be doing this with you.
Day 30 came and went so to say. It has been an incredible time.
Thank you~
~Princess Andi~
Hi Andi. Thank you for again for posting my writing about our experience on your blog. It has been both an incredible challenge and an incredible experience so far, filled with ups and downs (and I’m not talking about my horny cock). Thank you for your kind words of encouragement and your support. This was a particularly momentous day for us. It was exciting to do and exciting to write about. I hope you and others enjoy reading about it. And yay for Day 30 being right around the corner!