Greetings to you! This is Princess Andi and welcome to my blog. The below post is by BFla. He is writing about his very personal experience of embarking on a new journey with me and male chastity. Please read it, and then to follow BFla’s journey, head over to Enchantrix Empire, where he will be sharing his experiences with you.
Princess Andi~
One Man’s Personal Male Chastity Experience
Hello. This is Bfla and I am about to embark on a new experience for me with Princess Andi (or anyone for that matter). I will be in chastity for an entire month. Princess Andi will not allow me to cum during that time. No matter how much I stroke, hump, edge, plead, and beg, no matter how horny I get, I will have to keep that cum bottled up deep in my cock and balls and not have any orgasms.
I know from being an EE member and an avid reader of many Mistress and submissive blogs that some of you reading this may not think a month of no orgasms is all that big a deal. I know others have not cum for longer.
But that doesn’t diminish the importance of what I am about to do because ever since I discovered the pleasure of masturbating and had that first explosion, I have not gone anywhere near that long without cumming. Oh sure, there have been dry spells where I went months without sex, but I have a high sex drive and always had my right and left hands – being ambidextrous is a good thing. So release was never far away.
Tease and Denial Cock Stroking
Even after I began calling LDW and found Princess Andi as the right Mistress for me, I have continued to cum. Oh most certainly not all the time – there are plenty of times where Andi frustrates and denies me. And even when she allows me to have an orgasm, it is only when, where, and how she wants me to have it.
But the point is that the most I have gone without an orgasm is several days. For a variety of reasons, long-term chastity is not something that has interested me. But due to circumstances that recently arose for me, I had the opportunity to try this. One thing that is wonderful about having Andi as my Mistress is how she is so encouraging when I express interest in new forms of play, and how she provides a safe and comfortable place both to explore and to stop if it gets to be too much. And so I raised this, we talked about it, and agreed I would do it.
30 Days Without Cumming
So for the next 30 days, I will be in chastity. Over that time, we will try many different ways of frustrating me. Some days I will wear a chastity device. Some days I will be free but not allowed to touch myself. Some days she will have me stroke and edge until I think I will burst, then do it some more.
I am excited and nervous at the same time. Although I have some idea of what to expect, this is unknown territory for me. Andi has cautioned me that chastity can be a very emotional experience. Once I start, I want to finish. I really want to know what this is like. And I want to record my experiences here, in hopes people will find it interesting and share their thoughts as well.
So here we go. Thank you Andi for doing this with me and for being the perfect Princess for me.
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You are most welcome Bfla, so far you are doing really well.
Princess Andi~
Thank you Ms. Oliva, You know how much I adore you!
(((hugs)))
~Princess Andi~
Thank you Bfla,
I think it is brave that you are sharing such a personal journal with others over on Enchantrix Empire. I feel sharing your story will help others. 🙂
Thank you for doing so.
~Princess Andi~
Thank you for doing such a great job keeping a journal about your chastity journey. It has been awesome. 😉
~Princess Andi~
The blog — Bfla’s 30 Days Of Chastity — now has entries posted thro June 30 — Day 15.
This comment on Saturday June 29 is to let you, Andi, and everyone know that Part 2 of my Chastity Blog over at Enchantrix Empire, detailing Days 6 through 10, is posted. I hope everyone gets a chance to check it out and let me know what you think. Again, thank you everyone for your support and thank you Andi for doing this with me. Bfla.
~smiles~ You’re more than welcome! I know are in VERY good hands with Ms Andi! She’s one of My all time favorite people…as a Mistress and as a personal, dear friend of Mine!
Andi, thank you for saying I am brave to try this and share my experiences with others. Your encouragement and support here, on EE, and in our phone conversations both for doing this and sharing it mean a lot to me. I couldn’t do this without them.
Olivia, thank you for the support and advice. You are right; I shouldn’t compare. I see that more now after getting such a positive reaction from many people here and on my EE blog. It means a lot to me when a mistress such as you takes the time to offer encouragement and advice. Thank you for sharing in this.
PB, I second what Andi said about you taking the time to comment and offer your support. It means a lot to me. But Olivia and Andi are right.. We shouldn’t compare. We are each unique and special in our own right, and it is great that amazing mistresses such as Andi and Olivia encourage and support each of our differences and interests. From my end, I see your comments here and around LDW and you seem so comfortable and confident about what you are into. I have always admired that. I am not always that way. Thank you again for commenting, and I hope you enjoy my EE blog.
PB,
Aw, I am so shocked that you would not want to do this! 😉 I don’t think anyone is surprised to read that you won’t deny yourself pleasure…
I am like you. I am a “Princess comes first, kind of lady.” So, I am always thrilled to do chastity and when bfla admitted he wanted to explore this type of orgasm control with me. I was happy to guide and explore this with him.
PB, I really love how you took the time to write a comment to show support to Bfla, even though male chastity is not something that you are into. I think it is really important to support each other on our erotic journeys even when it is something we might not be into. Of course I am referring to all types of adult, sane, consensual play.
Thank you for reading! 😉
Princess Andi~
Thank you Ms. Olivia, That is very sound advice. I never advocate comparing ones experiences to another. Every Body is different. Not many people are willing to share there experiences though and am pleased that bfla is willing to be so open about it.
I am a big fan of yours also Ms. Olivia. Thank you for reading and the comment.
~Princess Andi~
I do think you are doing a really good job. You are most welcome. It’s brave that you want to share your experiences with chastity with others.
~Princess Andi~
Ms Andi…great post.
BFLA – best of luck and I commend you on your willingness to explore new things. I hope you find the chastity experiment to be “fulfilling” …I am not just talking about your balls when I say this 🙂
I must say you are a better man than me. Like most, I have had to endure dry spells when it comes to sex, but I have never been one to deny myself the pleasure of masturbating and the oh so great feeling of release. Some might say that at times my hand is my best friend 🙂
Unlike you, I do not have the fortitude to even contemplate the journey you have embarked on. I look forward to reading your daily blog detailing your travels down this path. Good luck, safe “travels”, and cum out safe on the other side of your chastity journey 🙂
Hey Ms Andi! GREAT blog post. I love that Bfla is exploring…and Bfla, wow aren’t you choosing something quite interesting to explore! One thing about chastity and any type of Orgasm Denial training….please don’t compare yourself or your time in chastity with anyone else. For some, 1 week is very intense. For others, it’s longer. It’s all about the sensations and the submission. I’m going to enjoy reading more about your journey in Chastity! Ms Andi is an amazing Mistress and a wicked, fun Chastity Mistress!
Thanks for posting this and thank you for telling Me about it!
Hello Andi. I am glad you think I am doing a good job. That means so much to me. As I hope people will read on my EE blog and we have discussed, it has been a combination of exciting, frustrating, and challenging; fun on most occasions but at times difficult. Thank you so much for posting my introduction here to let people know about this and for encouraging them to participate. I hope everyone finds the journal we agreed I would keep and post on EE to be interesting and beneficial in some way. Here we are Day 11; as always with you it has been an interesting journey. 🙂 Thank you for supporting me doing this and going through it with me. Once I figure out how to link to the blog, I will post the link here.