When most think of BDSM and domination, they have visions of what they have seen in the movies. Like 50 Shades of Gray or dark dungeons, with women in leather holding whips and chains. As exciting as all that may be to so many. The reality is not everyone has time for a trip to the dungeons or the space to build their own dungeon. One of the reasons domination phonesex works so well is because of one mind. Any mistress here can capture your imagination and take you on a journey that is not only exciting but will engulf you and stay with you for a very long time.
So, what is so great about domination phonesex?
Domination phonesex is safe.
When done right and the submissive takes the time to answer questions openly and honestly, this makes for the beginning of a great session. Safe words are good to use, and being honest about one’s limits is especially important. Knowing what your soft limits are and your hard limits are will help keep the session running smoothly. Don’t try to do something if you know you don’t like it. I don’t find that impressive at all, and I kind of find it insulting.
Now don’t misunderstand me. I do like to help a submissive grow and explore kinks out of their comfort zone but these are guys I have a history with and we have established a bond that we both can trust. It takes some time to get there. So, if you are new to domination phonesex and have a tendency to be shy, trust the process. Remember, at some point, you will be able to open up and share those more secret desires. Hopefully, sooner than later.
Princess Knows when you are holding back.
I have to confess something here: I have a knack that pretty much figures out when you are not sharing something with me or that you secretly want to try something. Sometimes, I am brazen and let you know. Other times, I might just wait it out to see if you bring it up yourself. Why the difference? It depends on YOU. Some of my shyer Submissives I know can be really skittish, and I know they need to process and figure things out for themselves. Mistress is here to help a submissive and guide a submissive.
Too many people get domination and abuse a little too blurred. I am not here to emotionally or physically abuse anyone. Even when pain-sluts are into this kink. I take the time to find out what their limits are.
That is why aftercare is so important. Not all want aftercare after a session but some do and I am here for you.
What kind of guys call for domination phonesex?
What kind of guys call for domination phone sex. Guys from all walks of life call for domination phonesex. Over the years I have talked to lots of high power in control of their lives professionals who are very successful. On the flip side I have talked to guys who are struggling and just want someone else to be in control. Many are interested in Female Led Relationships (FLR).
2 Enchantrix Empire Members share their experience of distance domination:
Here is what some members of our kinky online community over at Enchantrix Empire,(E.E.). have to say about their personal experiences with Domination phonesex.
EE Member, Domination phone sex has given me the chance to experience this dynamic in a range of styles, from ball gag-in-the-mouth to guided meditation. I have found the most fulfillment in being the eager and obedient student to a compassionate yet firm teacher / mentor. I’ve found this to be a safe way to explore kinks and fetishes, which has over the years led to a very immersive exploration of feminization and gender.
This started as exploration in fantasy and now can include journaling and sending pics as confirmation that I follow through on my commitments. (Worth noting that my trust in the women here with those pics has been well founded). While by nature phone sessions could be throwaways or just-for-kicks, the women here also provide the potential for an ongoing virtual relationship that builds and deepens over time. Excited for much more in the future!”
I really enjoyed what happychrissy had to say and have experienced long-term Submissives and am thrilled with being a part of their growth and giving them a safe space to not only explore their sexuality but, to enjoy it and accept who they are.
EE Member JizzaleneBimboSlut shared, “Domination Phone Sex is an equally awesome (not less than) alternative for people like me who may not be able to get dominated in-person!! I also enjoy sexytexting as a secret way to get my humiliation fix. Remaining anonymous is the highest priority for me and I trust LDW completely!!!
i also appreciate the opportunity to perform on WEBCAM during my phone and sexytexting sessions!! That includes (but is not limited to) humping my blowup doll and writing humiliating words on my forehead!!! i enjoy entertaining the Mistresses and I’m really thankful to have this activity in my life”
Safe Domination with us
As you can see from the above comment, maybe you can relate; you don’t have the time or want to risk being caught being your kinky self. Here at LDW you have the opportunity to connect and be heard about what turns you on. No one wants to betray your trust here. So you are in very safe hands.
I know all the mistresses here love to watch you and as you can see from both members comments that they know they are in safe hands and can trust any Mistress here in LDW not only with their kinkiest desires but their pictures and anything that they confide in.
What are your thoughts about distance domination? Have you tried it? Share your thoughts in the comment section. I would love to hear what you have to say about it.
Your phonesex Princess, Andi
Thank you Duchess Willow. I really appreciate you taking the time to share your thoughts on the subject of domination phonesex. Yes. I agree wholeheartedly with you, I have learned a lot from you and the other Mistresses here about different aspects of BDSM and love how we each have our unique and creative spin on any kink, regardless if we are a strict Mistress or a sensual Mistress when it comes to BDSM and our style of Domination. Thank you for taking the time out to respond again, here on my blog. XoXo Andi
Hi Andi I only just now saw your reply on Enchantrix social so I will share what I wrote there, here:
I’d like to share how it helped me as a Domme, before Enchantrix I worked the PSO rounds and learned a lot about fetishes, and then after joining LDW it has helped me learn all of the things I love about BDSM specifically, and also the ladies here I would say we learn from each other.
MissRachel, thank you. It really does take the pressure off knowing that LDW has our clients back and that we all can relax and enjoy our kinky sessions knowing that our discretion, safety and privacy are in good hands. Phone sex , especially, domination phonesex, can be really therapeutic in a lot of ways. Let some of that kinky steam out. I appreciate you taking the time to read and comment on my blog MissRachel. Thank you.
Princess Andi, this is a great, sensitive, and comprehensive explanation for those new to Us, and an affirmation to those who know and love Us already! Safety, discretion, and privacy are concerns that come up repeatedly when I’m meeting a prospective subbie for the first time, so I know many will really appreciate this, especially with the confirmation of those who have played with Us before!
Speaking of which, wow! The worldwide leader in Our field! Thank you so much, Gigi! I mean, I agree with you, but it means something else when a playmate of Ours shares that opinion!
Thank you Gigi! I couldn’t agree more! Thank you beautiful!
Phone sex can be exceptionally safe.It is easy to access.For many one does not have to leave their home.
Compared to what some other places charge like strip clubs LDW can be a bargain.
LDW in my mind is the world wide leader in it’s field.
Fun is good.There is alot of fun.