Cuckolding is a hot fetish. Many guys love cuckolding and so do woman! Cuckolding is great for couples because it is able to help keep spice in the relationship. Keeping things fresh and sexy might not come easy to every couple but adding a cuckolding dynamic to the relationship will do just that!
Why do men enjoy cuckolding?
Men enjoy being cuckolded because, this takes the pressure off of them. Most men are excited and happy to know that their significant other is sexual satisfied– even if, they are not the reason behind that orgasm. If you have a hard time with that–then this fetish is not for you! If that is the case don’t go around giving others that don’t have a problem with their wives or girlfriends cheating on them any problems about their fetish choices.
Why do woman enjoy cuckolding?
Many ladies out there will tell you that they cheat; because, they are not getting all their needs met. Some woman have stronger sex drives. Of course there are lots of reasons but, woman love to get off! Cheating on their man, is a way of getting the orgasms they aren’t getting at home. Plus– the naughtiness and excitement of being with another man! Oh-so-hot!
Why Couples choose cuckolding fetish?
Being in a relationship and exploring the cuckolding relationship is a great way of being able to set boundaries. Before you even get started you will need to talk about things. Temper expectations. Cuckolding will help with communication and keeps things honest for all involved. Men enjoy different aspects of being cheated on. Some want to watch, others want to eat a cream pie, I can go on and on. Some want to hear all the details, others just want to know you are happy and satisfied.
Women get a real charge out of cheating. There is something to be said about having the comfort of knowing that they are doing this with their mans blessing. Not only does the guy know she is cheating but getting turned on by it!
Cuckolding is a great idea for couples that want to stay marriage but, are lacking in the sexual satisfaction department. Communication and respecting boundaries vary with couple to couple and cuckolding really makes a couple talk about these things but also heats things up!
I feel cuckolding is a great idea for any relationship where both people love and respect each other. Cuckolding really can heat things up and many people in a cuckolding relationship are happy and satisfied. Are you considering a cuckold relationship? I would love to hear your story!
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Cuckold Princess,
Andi
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Cuckolding Princess Andi
That’s good spotty, not everyone can be honest with what turns them on or not. Thanks for adding to the discussion. xoxo
It’s cheating if the woman is doing it behind the man’s back. It’s a whole nother dynamic if the couple has discussed it, the man participates and actually enjoys it or at least accepts it.
Personally it doesn’t interest me, the way it’s usually portrayed. I could see being in an open relationship where both parties can have sex with others but if I wasn’t satisfying my partner and she wanted sex outside our relationship without allowing me to have other partners, that would not be acceptable to me.
I have no problem if you’re into it, great for you, it’s just not for me.
Yes very true Andi. It really does take the pressure off. Besides besides being on the smaller side peniswise, I had a really bad confidence issue. It was soo bad, that on my own honeymoon, another man bedded my new wife. After we got back home, we decided she would take a lover. Shes been very happy. Theres always that little voice in the back of my mind that tells me that I should be the one sexing her up. Instead, I stepped aside and the surrogate husband takes over.
For those on the outside or those who have not looked into it there are so many myths of cuckolding where the reality isn’t what the fantasy says it is. I’m not involved in a Cuckold relationship but from others I’ve talked to and read up on it I’ve learned that couples need to have strong relationships, trust and communication skills to navigate Cuckolding together. If that doesn’t exist from both parties then it’s unlikely the marriage will ever last.
I think that any marriage that starts to feel like it’s getting stale might be able to benefit from cuckolding! It’s the real deal, though. So everyone involved needs to be emotionally prepared to handle it. Yes, it’s hot as hell, but with cuckolding comes a whole new range of pleasures and challenges. So be very, VERY sure before you jump in!
You are right, Ms. Andi. Cuckolding fantasies are HOT, but sometimes moving from fantasy to reality can be tricky. This is where a great relationship between wife and husband is very important. Being a cuckold is NOT easy, as hot as it may sound when your dick is hard. It takes a lot of work, and a lot of maturity.
Cuckolding certainly is a great way to spice things up in a relationship. I think that sometimes it backfires on men. They finally get their wife to be with another man and he ends up getting most of her time. I hear some husbands say they had no idea they weren’t pleasing their wives. Now that she has a new man that she would rather fuck, what happens to hubbie’s cock?
What a thoughtful blog post Princess Andi!
I agree — cuckolding is one of the absolutely hottest erotic fantasies going — AND when moving to real life situations, cuckolding can be tricky. There DOES have to be love and respect, as you said — I’ll also add that there needs to be really good communication between the couple. There is often a need for communication between the hot wife and her lover or lovers but that is often less important than the communication between the original couple.