Cum eating seems like it’s the new thing when it comes to sex fetishes. It’s not really. I find that guys that are turned on by eating their own cum sexy! I recently heard a friend tell someone that her boyfriend wanted to lick his cum off of her tits and she was turned off by it. I jumped right into that conversation. It turns out that she just never thought of it and she didn’t have a problem with swallowing his cum. I said, “if it’s okay for her to eat his cum, why can’t he?” Now, I can understand if she was really into the taste and wanted all the cum for herself but that really wasn’t that case. I did give her some pointers and some things for her to talk to him about and they did have fun having him squirt all over her tits so he could lick it up. But then, he started to chicken out. Sound familiar? Frustrating for them both.
These are some common issues that guys face when it comes to eating their own cum. It’s normal to be turned on by the thought of eating cum but after the actual release being like, “Nah, I am good man.” Hence, leaving a puddle of spunk. Which is never cool. You should at least help clean it up if you are not going to eat your cum.
So, here are some things to do and talk about before actually trying to eat your cum.
1) talk about how you want to eat your cum.
Do you want to snowball and share that creamy load? Snowballing is when you swap the cum by kissing each other. This can be pretty hot! I suggest you give it a try.
2) take small steps. When it comes to cum eating if one of you are hesitant be patient with each other. Discuss what might be holding you back. Perhaps it’s the taste? Make some changes in your diet. Eat less red meat, for a few days, eat vegatables and citrus to help sweet the taste of your cum.
3) Don’t try to bully each other into something one of you are not ready for. I don’t think I need to explain this any further. Just have fun and enjoy each other. When you are both ready– go for it. Cum eating is a hot fetish and it is something that you can enjoy together as a couple. Have fun and Enjoy!
I look forward to hearing your cum eating stories and fantasies.
Princess Andi
SCSG, I am glad you enjoy the topic. Cum eating is a very sexy topic for me and a sexy fetish that I enjoy doing! I agree Snowballing is very hot! I am glad you are into it. Thanks for sharing! xoxox
Andi,
What a great topic.
Communication is so important and key to everything we do especially when it comes to sex.
I love licking my cum off of and out of my lover (when I have one).
Snowballing is very erotic and intimate. I enjoy it as well.
Ms, Andi,
I think we’ve all had to counter the guys who deosn’t want to eat cum with the “She swallows, so why don’t you” argument, but I don’t think I’ve ever come across a woman I had to use that on. Maybe it’s because I just tend to hang out with Dominant ladies who all think that men eating cum is very submissive and hot!
Ms. Delia
I love this post, Ms. Andi! And I love your advice. Especially the talking and being patient with each other. Honestly, I think these are key elements when it comes to anything in your relationship with your partner. And that absolutely goes for bullying. There is no place for this if you’re trying to really enjoy each other, explore, and have fun! 🙂
I love the idea of couples communicating and talking about this! Sometimes it’s super hard for a man to do it and you’re right, guys tend to lose their nerve once they ejaculate. I hope this blog helps some couples out there that want to be more kinky!
Ms Andi, what a great topic for couples! You have some very valid points regarding opening up and talking about it. Having a patient and understanding partner in your erotic journey is always a good thing!
Love the diet change suggestion, I find cantaloupe , and the traditional pineapple provide a candy like deliciousness to our sexy juices! Yep we all benefit from a diet in fruits!
See you around the Empire!