Spanking is for pleasure. I enjoy spanking a subbie. I find it refreshing to use my bare hand or the back of one of my paddle hair brushes on a naked bottom. These are just 2 of my favorite ways of giving a good spanking– but I will not write today about execution of a spanking. Today, I am going to write about what spanking is and is not for me.
What spanking is not
Let me start off with spanking is not something I do for punishment. Yes, you read this correctly. If you are a naughty sub, a disobedient pet. I am not going to reach for the nearest spanking implement and spank your ass red. No. That. Is. Too. Easy! I will not spank you. I am going to punish you in a more interesting way, but spanking is not part of that punishment.
What spanking means to me.
I have some trouble articulating here on my blog–how much I enjoy giving a good spanking. Spanking is pleasure. Pleasure and pain. I really enjoy how intimate a spanking is, for both of us. So, when I do spank someone, it is because I like them. I find that spanking is one of the ways I reward a good pet. Spanking you is like saying: Job. *swat* Well. *swat* Done. *swat* So, yes– I am going to spank you and we are both going to enjoy it. Spanking is a pleasure.
Princess Andi
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I would love to be spanked by you while I wear your tiny thong. It’s all about feeling vulnerable and girly at the same time. Also getting your cheeks squeezed can be a erotic feeling.
I personally would love to be spanked by you while I’m wearing a tiny thong. Also getting your cheeks squeezed can be really erotic. It’s all about being vulnerable and girly at the same time.
Being spanked is a mixed bag no doubt. In the part of the Country I am from there are not many boys who don’t recall a few trips over a maternal lap for one thing or another. It is “mixed” because it is scary, embarrassing, even humiliating but at the same exact time it is somewhat comforting. You feel taken care of (if not altogether “happy”). I think it can be something you feel you need.
Spanking is safe, naughty, slutty and sometimes it can be an icebreaker to other adventurous things. The feeling of having your butt spanked is simply another way of sexual expression. Plus seeing the ass jiggle when smacked is sexy fun.
I have always looked at accepting pain to entertain my Mistress as a gift from Her. CBT is one of the greatest gifts a sissy can give to His Mistress. I remember all to well how you enjoyed my suffering in a Kali bracelet to entertain you. I can still hear you laughing as I begged for you to stop. Perhaps we should do that again soon.