Is chastity sustainable?
I know several guys who have been chaste for many years so I do know that it is possible but is it realistic? And, is it something you would be interested in exploring?
As a dominant woman, I love the idea of you in chastity. The lock and key signify that I own you completely and I wouldn’t trade that for the world. That being said, I love the look on your face when you finally get to cum.
It’s no big secret that I love cocks. I like teasing cock, playing with them, watching them spurt cum. It turns me on to know that I have so much power over that one thing. So because of that, I like to let you out once in a while and play with your dick.
It’s also healthy. There is a health risk to having your cock locked permanently in a chastity device so letting it loose is a good thing. However, that doesn’t mean that you necessarily get an orgasm. I might just milk you for hours on end until I lock you up tight again.
But every so often I will let you cum. Because I love the lust in your eyes when you stroke your cock. I love how you follow my guided masturbation instructions to the tee because you finally get a chance to cum.
So how do you balance your desire for chastity with your health concerns and need for release? Being chaste gives you that feeling of having absolutely no control. You aren’t worthy of having an orgasm. You are only allowed to do what your Mistress says you can. When you are unlocked this is no different. You may be allowed to cum but only when she chooses. That means that the power is never back in your hands.
You can still achieve that ultimate feeling of being chaste and under someone’s thumb even if you have a release. Because it’s not really yours.
I think long term chastity is definitely possible but you have to be willing to give yourself up completely.
So are you?
Yes. Bfla. Two different people can enjoy the same thing for similar and/or for very different reasons. Whatever those reasons are vary but it doesn’t take away from the shared experience or the enjoyment of it. 🙂
Of course I enjoy both the control and the devotion. That is what makes it so special.
The build up is fun. I am glad you enjoy it.
~Princess Andi~
So Andi do you agree with my thoughts about chastity being something that two people can enjoy on different levels? That it can be about devotion and will power as well as control? Do you enjoy not just the control but the devotion? I enjoy the fun buildup a lot. I would be interested In more of your thoughts on the subject.
Thank you for adding to the discussion on male chastity, Bfla.
I enjoy edging you. You know how much I like to keep you bottled up. *evil grin*
Thank you for the comment.
~Princess Andi~
That’s wonderful Ms. Layla! I am confident that your chastity slaves are very lucky to have you. I have had some chastity slaves say that to me as well. In some cases we are better then marriage counseling! And, really know how to spice things up. 🙂
Well I agree with Layla that you are the perfect chastity mistress for me Andi. Long term chastity is an interesting thought and I think it would take a lot of will power to give up that kind of control. I think of chastity not just as giving up control, but as another way of showing devotion to someone special such as you, who had earned my devotion through all the wonderful times we have had. I’m not sure if I am yet ready to give it up entirely, but I do enjoy our occasional chastity periods. I enjoy the pleasure you get knowing how much I ache for release while you tease me and I hear how much you enjoy your own release. It’s so hot when you let me out and edge me. How close can I get for you? How long can I keep going for your enjoyment? Will you let me cum or keep me bottled up? The anticipation is wild. And when you do finally let me explode, WOW! What a feeling. Worth the chastity to feel that with you.
So chastity is something that can be enjoyed on many levels and in many ways. I am “up” for giving you that control at least on a short-term basis and showing you that devotion because of the appreciation you show and the good time you have. Fascinating post and I hope you enjoyed the discussion.
Ms. Andi long chastity is not only possible in some cases it the only thing that keeps someone in control. I have several callers who credit the health of their marriages with my locking them up.
I can’t imagine anyone who wouldn’t love to have you as their chastity Mistress!