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So I’ve been thinking about the act of masturbation lately and what it means. Now, that may seem silly to you at first glance, but I truly believe there’s more to masturbating than just being horny. Of course, sometimes, that’s all it means. You’re horny. You have an itch to scratch. So you go for it. But I think there’s more lurking under the surface than we sometimes realize.

In my opinion, masturbation is about more than just the primordial need to orgasm. That’s a not-small part of it, of course, but that’s not all there is. It’s more about the symbolic nature of taking control of something–anything–even when (or *especially when*) everything else is out of control. As long as you can fulfill that one need of yours, it’s proof that you have some control over things, even when everything seems chaotic. You have control over at least a small portion of your life if you can take your need for orgasm into your own hands and take care of it. Truly, I think sharing your masturbatory experience with another person is very intimate. You can share it in a number of ways, too. There is guided masturbation, for example, where another person tells you how to play with yourself, and you follow their directions. There’s also mutual masturbation, which I touch on later, where both of you masturbate together. You can also imitate the experience of masturbating with another by playing with yourself in front of a mirror and watching as you touch yourself. That, too, can be a very intimate experience with your own self!

Guided Masturbation

In a sense, you are handing control over to someone else, but that’s part of the rush. Sure, you know how to masturbate and could do it alone, but think of the thrill that comes from doing something for someone else. The intensity of knowing your cock is being controlled by someone else and you can only do as you’ve been told. Whether sensual or strict, jacking off how someone else wants can lead to learning new things about yourself, or confirming other techniques. Hearing their voice in your head, whether you’re having phone sex or even a cam session, you can’t help but get off on the rush of cock control.

Mutual Masturbation Fun

Masturbation doesn’t always have to be a solo adventure. There are those whose pleasure is enhanced by getting off together. It’s similar to guided masturbation, but you aren’t so focused on just your own pleasure. Sharing an intense masturbation session with someone else, whether they are in the same room or you are connecting via technology, is an especially exciting version of getting off. It becomes something that enhances all of your senses, not just your dick. You can hear their pleasure, the way their bodies move, or sometimes even watch how they pleasure themselves. It can be a beautiful bonding experience, or it can be a delightfully decadent interaction.

Getting Off

Almost everyone masturbates. Anyone who says otherwise is probably lying. It’s perfectly healthy, perfectly normal, and most of all, perfectly human. There’s a reason you feel better after getting off, and it’s not just the endorphins released by the orgasm itself. It’s sharing the experience with someone else that enhances it

Many people connect with others through masturbation by doing phone sex, cam-to-cam fun, or even masturbating together in real life. When this happens, you’ve got two or more people engaging in showing their own humanity to each other because, again, to masturbate is to be human. You have a problem; you do what you can to solve it. And if you can help someone else solve their problem, too, well, that’s just that much more human, if you ask me.

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