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Cuckolding fetish is very exciting. Many men and woman are thinking about giving Cuckolding a try. The number one question– I am asked when it comes to Cuckolding is:  ‘Will being into cuckolding ruin my relationship’? My response is usually the same because the answer to this question,  really does depend on your relationship.  If you are both secure human beings. Both communicate well. Are honest with each other, then the answer to this question will be a no. If anything, Cuckolding will strengthen your relationship.  Here are some habits strong couples in the  cuckolding lifestyle do to maintain a healthy, loving relationship.

3 healthy ways to maintain your cuckolding relationship

  1. Strong boundaries— They each have their own personal boundaries and their boundaries as a couple. They not only respect each others boundaries, they protect them and keep those boundaries strong.
  2. Communication— Taking the time to check in and share what’s going on. Taking the time to listen. Really. Listen. To. Each. Other.  This helps strengthen the relationship. They communicate about their boundaries. They check in with each other. I will write a blog post on what kind of questions you should ask each other before wanting to jump in to the cuckolding part.
  3. Takes time out of the month to be Andi and Steve. hee-hee insert your own names– I used my name and my boyfriends name. You get the idea.  It’s important to do this. I make this suggestion in any BDSM type of relationship. You take a week or at least a few days each month to be you. This helps both of you take a break and gives you the space to connect in other ways that will help you grow as a couple.  Just take the time to take a break from your fetish and be with each other.

I have seen strong couples blossom  in a cuckold relationship. I have seen troubled marriages implode before even getting started. If you are agreeing to try cuckolding to save your marriage–or any type of fetish to save your marriage. It probably won’t work– especially, if you really are not into it. That is the worse reason to get into the cuckold lifestyle. Try marriage counseling instead.

Cuckolding can be very fulfilling for both partners– Just remember to keep maintaining your relationship, in and out of the bedroom.

I love hearing your cuckold stories. Share what works or doesn’t work for you!

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