Anal Sex. I have a lot of straight men that are curious about this taboo area of their body. I don’t like calling it taboo but from experience so many men are afraid of this region of their body’s. A lot of sexual hangups and misconceptions when it comes to anal play. This makes Princess Andi sad. You don’t want to make Princess Andi sad, now do you?
Hee-hee I didn’t think so!
What would you say, if I told you– your anus is an unexpected treasure of joy? A hidden gem of pleasure. That there are so many nerve endings concentrated in that area, meant to increase your pleasure! That when it comes to the concentration of nerve endings it is only second to your genitals? Shocking, isn’t it? * I know that many of you are surprise to read that! You know first hand, how good touching your cock and balls can be! Can you imagine adding anal play to your sexy time? Imagine, how much hotter your sexy time can be?
So, I am going to share some of my thoughts and experiences on Anal sex with my focus on the straight male. Because one of the biggest misconceptions I would like to correct is:
Does Anal Play Make Me Gay?
I want you to remember that your body is your body. You have all these wonderful and sexy erogenous zones all over your body that love to be touched, rubbed , licked and more. Your anus has all these wonderful nerve endings inside of you. If I understand the male anatomy, when it comes to that little puckered hole– there is close to 4000 nerve endings! Naturally, your anus is going to be an erogenous zone.
This pleasure zone is often neglected because of societal norms of what is sexually acceptable. Anal sex is even illegal in some parts of the world! I find this very upsetting because, I feel it is no-ones business. It is your body and you should be able to enjoy it as long as you are not causing harm to anyone else.
I talk to a lot of straight men that worry about what it means, if they want or enjoy having their asshole played with. I sympathize and take the time to give you a safe play and guide you in exploring your own anus.
Expect more anal and the straight male talk over this summer.
This is just the beginning of my writing about anal sex and the straight male. Please keep checking back for more on this subject over the summer. I will share all kinds of interesting information and tidbits on anal play. I also want to hear from you. If you have struggled with your enjoyment of anal play, or, are curious and have any other thoughts on the subject, don’t hesitate to share your feelings on the subject of anal play in the comment section below.
You probably noticed, I didn’t answer the question does liking anal sex mean your are gay; because, I believe you already know the answer to this. You can love having your ass played with and not be gay!
I am here to capture your cock and penetrate your mind!
Princess Andi
PS. Please note that your body has a higher concentration of nerve receptors in your brain, fingertips and lips. 😉 Don’t forget I am not a doctor, I just like to play one under the right sexy circumstances. hee-hee
3 Cheers for StephanieCDCNJ I love your beautiful attitude! Thank you for taking the time to write about your feelings on the subject of anal sex. I agree, it shouldn’t even be a concern and yet it really is an issue for some men. I hope they read your comment and finally get it– it doesn’t matter if you are or not. Just enjoy being you and don’t worry about what turns you on! As long as one is safe and not hurting anyone– have all the sexy fun that you like!
XoXoXo
I love anal play with the butt Plugs, vibrators and dildos I have. It not only feels good but really brings out the submissive effeminate being deep inside me. I think guys need to change their thinking instead of wondering if trying or liking anal play makes them gay is that they should know if they are gay that there is nothing wrong with it and it’s just a part of who they are.
hee hee sure I would be happy to help you with that. A little patience and exploration, you might find that butt plug your new favorite toy. Erika and I would both love to help you! Contact us to arrange a 2 Mistress Session. I look forward to it. 🙂
I have tried a little experiment with this but I got frustrated with the butt plug I used and thought was just useless. Can you or Mistress Erika help me with that. I probably need instructions Mandy
You are right about anal stimulation being so pleasurable. Sexual orientation has no bearing at all. Many straight men have no idea how good this type of touch can be. Since men have a prostate this type of play can be intense. If a man can put aside all of the societal baggage that comes with anal play, it opens up a whole new world of sexual experimentation.
I love how you say that anal stimulation is neither gay nor straight, but just stimulation. What feels good, feels good and it doesn’t mean anything other than the fact you like it. Sometimes men need a knowledgeable Mistress like you to keep them informed. 🙂
Bob, I am glad you enjoyed the post. I do have some wonderful ways to guide you for your hands free goal. hee hee. you are going to love it! Thanks for the comments.
oh, you are going to love it Slutsky!
This is a really touchy subject with men and they get very nervous! But there’s absolutely nothing wrong with exploring a pleasurable orifice. People use q-tips in their ears, don’t they? That’s some of the most gratifying pleasure there is! Not trying to be funny, but anything on your body that brings pleasure…..how could that be bad?
Good afternoon mistress Andi. I too love this post. I’m very curious about playing with my anus. So much so I’d like to some day be able to have hands free orgasm ‘s. Any guidance on how to reach my hands free goal?
Princess Andi I can hardly wait to start my anal journey with you and Mistress Erika!!
Mistress Erika, Princess Andi, I can hardly wait my my training.
Princess Andi!
I simply and totally love this post! The anal region has been chockfull of taboo’s for eons it’s time to bring some light on the subject! I know, I’ll hold the flashlight you hold the toy! *roars with laughter*. But seriously, I like this blog because it helps dispel some taboo’s on the subject. Nope not gay if you like anal play!
I get not all play is for all people, but I encourage all men to try some anal play at least twice! But be sure to have someone experienced, like us to guide you to those oh-so-secret spots that will have you moaning and squirming in pleasure!
Oh and slutsky with the blow up BP and prostate massager he’s to get this summer! Andi, you and I are going to have A LOT OF FUN with him, training him “just right”
hee hee Slutsky, I am so looking forward to participating in some sexy anal play with you. Erika and I are going to have so much fun with you! Anything to keep those balls full! hee hee XoXo
Princess Andi I would love to explore anal play with you the next time we have our WONDERFUL session. I’m going to get the anal toy you told me to buy. Can’t wait to have you tell me how to use it. FYI I’m not gay or bisexual just think this would be something I might enjoy with you and Mistress Erika.
Thank you Gem Sissy! Your comment made me smile. mmm… I love your comment! XoXo
Princess Andi, thank you for being such an insightful friend to us whether we’re straight or sissy or whatever. Anal play is wonderful and a large part of my sexual experiences any more. For me much of it is focused on it being a cock inside me but that’s just me. I’m sure it would feel as good as a simple dildo.
thank you spotty! 🙂 I do love a well made dildo with suction cup. thank you for sharing and reading! xoxoxo
You can play with any part of me that pleases you, Princess Andi!
The only difficulty I have with anal is it can get a bit awkward when playing by yourself. A suction cup dildo might make things easier. Perhaps you can discuss that in the future.
As far as anal making you gay or bi the only thing I believe that does that is if you are sexually attracted to males.
xoxo