BDSM has a lot of acronyms in its vernacular. These are terms that every serious and not so serious kinkster will come across at some point in their BDSM journey. Many of you already know these terms and some of you don’t. Here is a list of Acronyms that those in the BDSM Community and I tend to use often.
16 BDSM Fetish Acronyms you should know:
BDSM— okay this is an acronym that everyone, even in the vanilla world has heard of by now but do you know what it means? Bondage Discipline Sadism and Masochism.
S&M S&M is Sadism and Masochism which is a practice of taking or causing abuse during sex.
SPH. Small Penis Humiliation. This is a hot fetish with guys that like to be humiliated because of the size of their dick is small.
CEI: Cum Eating Instruction. Eating your cum is hot. I love being a cum eating coach and will be thrilled to instruct you on how to eat your cum.
CBT : Cock and Ball Torture. Or Cock and ball torment. Here we call it torment and it is a great tie for those that are into it.
CD: Cross Dresser.
CP: Corporal Punishment. Into spanking? Being punished by whip or any other Spanking Implement? You will need to know this acronym.
ATM: Ass to mouth. Yes. it means what you think it means. When a cock or toy goes in the ass and then the mouth next.
J.O.I. Jerk Off Instructions. This is when your mistress tells you how to stroke that cock.
J.O.E Jerk off encouragement. When encouraging you and cheering you on to jerk off that cock.
S.S.C. or S.S.C.P Safe Sane Consensual or Safe Sane Consensual Play.
P.E Power Exchange. This is a huge part of BDSM.
V.A. Verbal Abuse
O.T.K Over the Knee. This is a part of C.P.
BBC Big Black Cock. This is a big fetish with guys that are into SPH and or Cuckolding.
I saved one of my favorites for last:
CFNM — Clothed Female Naked Male. a sensual form of humiliation.
Did I leave off your favorite BDSM Acronym?
Don’t see your favorite Acronym mentioned, here on my blog? I might have left it off my list due to my T.O.S (terms of service) I can not use certain language on my blog here but it doesn’t mean that I won’t talk about it on the phone. 😉 If you are unsure if I am willing to talk about a certain fetish, please ask me via email or on the phone. What acronyms do you like using? Go ahead and share here on my blog below in the comment section.
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Princess, as you know I have my own for our calls. In addition to CEI we have CFI, CLI and CDI. Cum Facial Instructions, Cum Licking Instructions and Cum Drinking Instructions.
Not for me but I suppose you should have CBS for after CBT, Cock and Ball Soothing. I don’t know from experience (other than Blue Balls while waiting for you which is painful enough for me!, BB, which already is an acronym I think?) … but I would think soothing would be in order after CBT.
What about FF for food fucking? Aren’t there any for sploshing too?
I do like CFNM.
This is super helpful for people just getting started. I’m glad you posted this, Miss Andi! There are definitely blogs all around here that use these acronyms, so I’m glad this is so explanatory for those wondering!
I think you hit all of my favorites, one of which is ATM. It makes me giggle when people talk about ATM and some people think they’re talking about where to make a financial transaction. Little do they know that financial transactions aren’t required for ATM. 😉
Princess Andi,
You did SSC and SSCP, but there’s also RACK – Risk Aware Consensual Kink. For edgier players, that’s when you understand the risk, but you’re still willign to play.
Ms. Delia
Andi pants wins all the awards and boobie rubs. This is an excellent and educational post for any and everyone in the kink community. I have my own, SIC (safe insane consensual)… heheheheh *gigglesnorts* ♥
Ding! Ding! Ding! We have a winner! Thanks Tedi! You get a gold star for knowing what FLR means! Thank you for playing!
Andi
Hi there Tedi, Thanks for sharing what you learned from reading today’s blog post! I love it! XoXo
Andi
Female lead relationship .
Joi and Joe Princess.
Someone just mentioned to me FLR. if you know what that stands for, leave it in my comments and show off your knowledge, show off your great big… brain!
XoXo
Andi
hee-hee me too! thanks spotty.
Tedi, You are welcome. I am curious what 2 did you not know before reading this? xoo
Now when someone says they are going to the ATM, you have to wonder what they mean.
Yes MISTRESS yes Princess knew everyone except two .