Tease and denial, something I never grow tired of. If you are new to BDSM– tease and denial is the practice of preserving a state of high sexual arousal for a long period of time. In other words giving you blue balls and keeping your balls blue. There are different ways to reach this heighted state of arousal and keeping you there without orgasm.
Here are 4 of the ways I enjoy erotic denial with you.
Edging: Edging is tricky because I have to be able to slow down stimulation or completely stop all genital stimulation before you orgasm. Sometimes, I miss judge this and the guy cums anyway but it ends up being a ruined orgasm due to the fact that I am no longer stimulating his cock. A ruined orgasm causes you to be frustrated and is not as satisfying as a regular orgasm. I enjoy edging in phone sessions. This is one of my most common ways for erotic denial. I like to think of this as a wild, sexy, roller coaster ride a real sexy treat for you to experience.
Tie and Tease: Bondage and erotic denial? Yes please! I love tying you up and teasing your dick and balls. This is such a hot way to deny you because I am not only denying you the pleasure of an orgasm– I am denying you the pleasure of reaching out and touching ME. I am so close to you, stimulating your genitals and making you wiggle and squirm and at the same time– you are unable to reach out and touch me and more importantly you are unable to reach out and touch yourself! I love doing this. If you are into bondage and erotic denial. I am sure, you will love to have a tie and tease session.
Complete denial. This means no genital stimulation. No touching, no edging. Just absolutely no orgasm at all. Can even involve male chastity. Which I love. Complete denial can be anywhere from a few hours- to years. It depends on the people playing.
One thing I love to do when I am erotically denying a guy is prostate milking. Especially, a guy that is locked up in chastity. This alone in itself is a very sexy way to tease and deny you.
Ruined Orgasm. I mentioned Ruined Orgasm when it comes to edging. Ruined Orgasms are a lot of fun because there are so many different and sexy ways to ruin an orgasm. I like to get creative and ruining an orgasm gives me a sexy outlet to do this with you.
Speaking of creativity. There are so many ways to tease that cock and keep your balls blue. I can use toys, household items and even my body to tease and stimulate you in ways that will leave you breathless.
Long distance Tease and Denial
Doing a tease and denial session over the phone is not only doable it is a lot of fun! The only difference between a tease and denial session over the phone is that you need to use your own “hands” to stimulate your genitals. I say hands with quotes because, I don’t always have you stimulate your genital by stroking. I also like to play masturbation games, for example: Have you ever played Red light Green light as a stroking game? This is just one of the sexy tease and denial stroking games we can play!
Are you ready for a sexy adventure? I am here to titillate you in ways you only dreamed of!
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if you edged me but used chastity too Mistress Andi that would keep me from going over the edge so to speak. and then because im so weak you’d have me right where you want.
Ms Andi, there’s no better way to start the day than turning a randy caller into Little Boy Blue, if you get my meaning. These guys love it when they get teased to point of exploding but know they have to keep it in.
oh… Thank you PB. I not only know this about you– I love that about you! hee hee
Ms Andi…great post. I must confess that I love the “Tie and Tease”. But I think you know this about me already 🙂 I would love to be tied up and teased by you. I would love to see how far you take it, how much you would make me beg, how you might use this power to get to me to admit my deepest secrets…an yes, how you might use this power to “coerce” me to do things just to have you touch and stroke my cock.
Thank you, Piper. Tease and denial is sooo much fun! I know you know that too!
Wow! This is a very informative post, Ms. Andi. It really showcases how well you know a man, and how well you command and control his cock! I’m sure your pets are quite grateful for your expertise and your sensuality when it comes to tease and denial. 🙂
hee hee I believe you are correct! xxoxoxx
I think we have done all of these Princess Andi!