Listening is so very important. The world would be such a better place if we all took the time to listen. When It comes to phonesex— I take much pride in giving you the best of my ability and I am always striving to be a better listener. Some things that I have experienced as an ETE (Erotic Talk Entertainer) that surprise me have to do with listening — I am often surprised about how many people that call me are not used to being listened to. They stop and freak out and wonder are you there? I laugh and say of course! I am listening to what you are saying! Phone sex is much more then just a sexy voice on the other end and actively listening is important in communication.
Do I multi task on calls
I even had a guy accuse me of not listening and doing my nails. This cracked me up. I can assure you–I would never risk a manicure over a call. Tee-hee I take pride in all I do. So, when I do a call– I am giving you my attention, when I am doing my nails– I am doing my nails. No multi tasking here.
I feel listening is extremely important it makes or breaks a hot phonesex call
When I am listening to you– I close my eyes and picture what you are telling me- I listen to what you are NOT telling me. If I am not understanding– I am quick to ask you to clarify so that I am on the same page– in my opinion- nothing is worse then I am thinking you meant one thing and you meant something else and in the middle of playing, that miscommunication dampens our play.
I am listening so get used to it
So, if you are not used to being listened to–this can be a bit strange to you at first. I say get used to it– because if you want to be a part of the BDSM Community or just dabble here or there in your brand of kink– Communication is crucial to a hot kinky time. You should want a Phonesex Mistress that listens to you.
Remember you must be willing to communicate–
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I am glad you feel heard bfla. Enjoy your calls. 🙂
I can’t imagine an ETE lasting very long without being a good listener. Callers would figure that out pretty quick, don’t you think? That has always been a strength of the ladies I have talked to here.
Ohhhh great question Bryan! I will edit my post to clear that up as well. ETE: Erotic Talk Entertainer. 🙂 XoXo
🙂 XoXo you are soooo much fun to do calls with! XoXo
Thank you Cindy– So- very true. Actively listening– I am one of those people that actively listens but if I am not clear about something– I have to interrupt to get that clarification quickly or I get kind of stuck sometimes on what is being said but you are spot on when it comes to listening and being sincere. Thanks for the comment. 🙂
Thank you Sisecal– I enjoyed your cries of protest. What a pleasure! And– you are most welcome– I really do care! XoXo
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You are totally right Princess Andi. Listening is essential to good communication and a great call!
You are so right Ms. Andi. Actively listening is definitely a technique that requires you to provide feedback on what you hear to the caller, by paraphrasing what you hear in your own words. The ability to actively listen shows sincerity.
Dear Princess Andi, I am surprised that anyone who has talked with you would question whether you are litening or if you have listened during the first introductory moments. During my sessions with you, I had no doubt that you were listening, watching and enjoying my torment, frustration and humiliation. I knew, from your voice and laughter that you were into our entire conversation. My mind goes back to my evening in the Kali. I knew that you were feeling my excitement, frustration and pain as I cried, begging you to stop. I wanted you to leave so the pain would stop, I could here you giggle when I begged not to cum, I wanted to end the conversation. You, on the other hand, continued pushing my limits, almost bringing me to tears begging as my tiny one strained against the pins of Kali. Boy did I hurt, but you, because you listened, knew that, over my protests, I wanted proceed. it was my best session and I could tell that you were not going through the motions; you were enjoying every feeling that I was experiencing. I want to do it again, but the reality of that moment actually make me reluctant to turn my cock over to you again. I know you listen and will soon send off to you more comments for you to use against me in our next meeting. My Kali is waiting! Thank you for caring.